this is a complete list of every show or concert i’ve ever attended. i’ve kept up with it mostly for nostalgic purposes. :)

# who? where? with? when?
1. beloved, codeseven, heartscarved, all astronauts ziggy’s blake, anna 05/18/02
2. athenaeum downtown/BB&T doug, brent 07/25/02
3. gadrel, the minor times, backstabbers inc., the western sky, a stained glass romance brew ha ha’s blake, beef, sid, dustie, adam 07/27/02
4. gadrel, Xat war with themX, B.T.B.A.M. PS211 doug 08/01/02
5. warped tour charlotte; verizon wireless amphitheater doug 08/06/02
6. gadrel, avenged sevenfold, bleeding through PS211 doug 08/26/02
7. athenaeum, looking back ziggy’s andy, john, blake, rachel, kristin, sam 09/06/02
8. gadrel, sworn enemy, full blown chaos PS211 andy 09/08/02
9. beloved, cky, malebolgia brew ha ha’s andy 09/27/02
10. tribunal showcase: brand new disaster, darkness remains, samadhi, daylight dies, neintara, aria, heartscarved, SWIFT! ziggy’s andy, jeremy, tim, david, drew 10/05/02
11. jump little children, tinker’s punishment ziggy’s doug 10/19/02
12. stuckshot, armani death machine, 13 columns, SWIFT! ziggy’s andy, jeremy, zack 12/15/02
13. david ryan harris, edwin mccain ziggy’s doug 12/26/02
14. the revelation darling, evoka, athenaeum ziggy’s doug, rachel 12/27/02
15. jump, little children, tinker’s punishment ziggy’s doug 02/14/03
16. since by man, norma jean, hopesfall, dillinger escape plan ziggy’s zach, scott 04/15/03
17. bloodjinn, darkest hour, each passing moment, curl up and die, minus brew ha ha’s zach, brian 05/24/03
18. between the buried and me, darkness remains, the black dahlia murders, seventh star, set ablaze brew ha ha’s john, zach, sam, michael 05/31/03
19. kid gorgeous, the judas cradle, undying PS211 grainger 06/08/03
20. for dire life sake, this hero dies, walsham, seneca MSU skatepark zach, matt 06/17/03
21. fire when ready, copeland, between the buried and me, beloved tremont music hall rebecca, duane, zach, matt, matt, jay 06/24/03
22. firenze, valor, bigger than you brew ha ha’s drew, michael, grainger 06/05/03
23. clutch, iron boss, elegant honkies ziggy’s early 07/12/03
24. throwdown, terror, every time i die ziggy’s drew, michael, grainger 08/04/03
25. shai hulud, avenged sevenfold tremont music hall drew, michael 08/12/03
26. athenaeum, gin blossoms ziggy’s grainger, ashley, BJ, rachel, anthony, brent 08/14/03
27. beloved, the backup plan, this hero dies, boxbomb carrboro drew, michael, matt 08/23/03
28. between the buried and me, glass casket brew ha ha’s too many to name 09/04/03
29. the misfits, agent orange hartley’s in highpoint grainger 11/08/03
30. beloved, self portrait, all astronauts PS211 shane, grainger 11/28/03
31. athenaeum, the clear, creamy velour ziggy’s rachel 12/30/03
32. glass casket, seneca, evergreen terrace, stretch arm strong brew ha ha’s grainger 02/06/04
33. sister hazel, dexter freebish ziggy’s becky, ashley 02/19/04
34. swift, minus.driver, far less ziggy’s dan, thomas, ian, austin, seawelly, nikki 03/06/04
35. skid row, box bomb amos’s southend grainger, john 05/21/04
36. undying, the sleeping, a life once lost, premonitions of war brew ha ha’s thomas 06/16/04
37. bela fleck & the flecktones A.S.U.’s farthing auditorium A.P.P.S. concerts 09/29/04
38. queensryche milennium center anthony, stephen, james, jennifer 10/28/04
39. glass casket, crimson spectre, the black acadia mourning, the infamous brandy alexander, white collar massacre, red orchestra radio house of 828 anthony 10/29/04
40. black eyed peas, the wylde bunch holmes convocation center A.P.P.S. concerts 11/12/04
41. bret michaels, stickboy ziggy’s james, jill 12/02/04
42. gwar, dying fetus, all that remains ziggy’s grainger, john, chris, rob 12/22/04
43. athenaeum, looking back, parklife ziggy’s daniel 12/30/04
44. merlefest w/alison krauss & union station wilkes community college mom, robert 05/01/05
45. manowar, rhapsody, holyhell ziggy’s james 06/03/05
46. dukesfest w/shooter jennings bristol dragway, TN james, brandi 06/05/05
47. the influence klondike jill, chasity 07/08/05
48. secret lives of the free masons, control the orange peel ben, sarah, bill 07/15/05
49. bret michaels, bridge amos’ southend jill, james 07/22/05
50. powerman 5000, witherspoon the sophisticated otter wright, joey, craig, zach 08/17/05
51. black sabbath, velvet revolver, mudvayne, shadows fall, black label society, in flames, rob zombie, killswitch engage, as i lay dying, mastodon, a dozen furies, the haunted, arch enemy, black dahlia murder, bury your dead, it dies today, soilwork, trivium, gizmachi, wicked wisdom verizon wireless amphitheatre sterka, dave, wright, james 09/02/05
52. motley crue verizon wireless amphitheater james 09/07/05
53. 3 doors down, staind, shinedown, silvertide, alter bridge, no address, 30 seconds to mars verizon wireless amphitheatre james, brandi, ashley 09/11/05
54. def leppard, bryan adams alltel pavillion @ walnut creek grainger, puhlman, chapin 10/15/05
55. glass casket, kill whitney dead, bloodjinn, advent, deathblow, giant ziggy’s adam 12/29/05
56. jon bon jovi charlotte bobcats arena james 01/18/06
57. gretchen wilson, van zant, blaine larsen LJVM coliseum mom 02/03/06
58. nickelback, chevelle, trapt charlotte bobcats arena james, ashley 03/23/06
59. firehouse red rooster brian, randi, chris, james, billy 04/20/06
60. sevendust, soil, hourcast disco rodeo adam 05/18/06
61. poison, cinderella, end everafter verizon wireless amphitheater james 08/16/06
62. appetite for destruction legends gerry, austin, duddy 10/12/06
63. guns n’ roses, sebastian bach, papa roach greensboro coliseum james 11/02/06
64. winger, u-phonik amos’ southend james, elizabeth 02/07/07
65. merlefest w/alison krauss & union station, nitty gritty dirt band, sam bush wilkes community college ryan, mom 04/27-28/06
66. poison, ratt, vains of jenna verizon wireless amphitheater james, jerry 06/17/07
67. avenged sevenfold, operator, the confession, black tide house of blues, myrtle beach, SC adam, pugh, curtis, reyes 11/17/07
68. clutch, coheed and cambria, fall of troy millennium center n/a 11/23/07
69. motley crue verizon wireless amphitheater adam, james 07/05/08
70. travis barker, DJ AM LAX Nightclub, Luxor, Las Vegas, NV AITP 01/07/09
71. lil wayne panama city beach, FL brett, brandon 03/12/09
72. 38 special fayetteville, NC adam & D Co 04/24/09
73. collective soul fayetteville, NC adam & D Co 04/25/09
74. avenged sevenfold, disturbed charlotte, NC brett 09/01/10
75. jason aldean, lee brice charleston, SC brett 10/01/10
76. athenaeum, emmet swimming amos southend, charlotte, NC rich, rachel 12/19/10
77. kid rock, jamey johnson charleston, SC brett 02/16/11
78. kevin hart charleston, SC brett 04/16/11
79. dierks bentley, josh thompson, miss willie brown, the piedmont boys charleston, SC brett 05/12/11
80. blue man group las vegas, NV brett 08/05/11
81. ron white las vegas, NV brett 08/06/11
82. alison krauss & union station charleston, SC brett 08/14/11
83. brian regan charlotte, NC brett 06/23/12
84. mannheim steamroller charleston, SC brett, drew 12/1/12
85. eric church, justin moore, kip moore charleston, SC brett 12/13/12
86. avenged sevenfold, killswitch engage, rob zombie, volbeat, anthrax, black label society, adelitas way, seether, black stone cherry, trivium, thousand foot krutch charlotte, NC brett 05/03/14
87. KISS, def leppard charlotte, NC brett, beth, john 07/19/14
88. luke combs band bubba’s love shak, murrells inlet, SC brett, beth, john 08/01/14